If your relationship looks like a walking, talking hazard sign, it’s time to run — not redecorate.
Marrakech – Ladies, let’s talk. Relationships — those beautifully chaotic, heart-fluttering, sometimes soul-crushing adventures we willingly sign up for.
Whether you’re head over heels, questioning your life choices, or already crafting your breakup speech in the mirror, navigating love is no easy feat.
But fear not, because if there’s one thing we’ve mastered, it’s the art of survival.
Red flags aren’t interior decor
Sure, we all love a good aesthetic, but if your relationship looks like a walking, talking hazard sign, it’s time to run — not redecorate.
If he’s emotionally unavailable, allergic to accountability, or treats texting like an Olympic sport where he’s permanently benched — girl, don’t waste your time knitting him a personality.
You’re not a rehab center for emotionally unavailable men
Repeat after me: it is not your job to fix him.
You are not a relationship therapist; you are a fabulous human being who deserves someone who actually knows how to communicate without needing a Morse code manual.
Know when to leave the party
Sometimes love feels like a party you don’t want to leave — even when the music’s stopped, the lights are on, and everyone else has left.
If you’re doing all the emotional labor, making all the compromises, and he’s treating your presence like background noise, take your fabulous self elsewhere.
Your friends know best
If all your besties give you the same “Are you serious?” look every time you mention his name, it might be time to listen.
Love can make us blind, but true friends? They have 20/20 vision and absolutely no tolerance for your relationship nonsense.
Self-love is the main character energy you need
No relationship will ever be as important as the one you have with yourself.
Whether you’re single, taken, or in an “it’s complicated” situationship that deserves its own Netflix series, always put yourself first.
Date yourself, spoil yourself, and most importantly — never let a man be the reason you forget your worth.
At the end of the day, love should make you feel safe, cherished, and like the best version of yourself.
If it doesn’t, then girl, it’s not love — it’s just a bad habit.
