Marrakech – So let’s have a little girl talk. Just us. Because whether it’s a corporate gala, a client dinner, or one of those conferences where everyone pretends to love networking (but really just wants to find the snack table), the pressure to show up — in every sense — can feel overwhelming.

But here’s the secret: confidence doesn’t magically appear when you put on heels. You build it the night before.

Forget what they say about clothes not mattering.

They do — because the right outfit doesn’t just fit your body, it fits your mood.

Choose something that makes you stand up straighter.

Something that makes you feel like the most capable version of yourself.

No, it doesn’t have to be a power suit. Maybe it’s a flowy jumpsuit with earrings that say “I’m creative and I get things done.”

Own your look. Don’t let the look own you.

Skincare? Of course. But mental skincare is a thing too.

Block out 20 minutes the night before to just breathe.

Visualize the event going well. Not in a cheesy way — just in a “what if it actually goes better than expected?” way.

Hype yourself up like your best friend would. Because, let’s be real, sometimes we forget we’re actually pretty impressive.

You don’t need to memorize a speech. But having three go-to talking points in your back pocket? Game-changer.

Think: one professional update, one interesting thing you’ve read recently, and one compliment that doesn’t feel forced.

(Pro tip: “Your presentation had so much clarity” works way better than “Nice blazer.” Unless the blazer is really nice.)

Yes, the temptation to stay up tweaking slides or Googling “what to say when meeting the CEO” is real.

But beauty sleep is realer. You need your sparkle. You need your witty comebacks. And trust me, they only show up after at least six hours.

Coffee? Obviously. But also a playlist that makes you feel like the main character. A little dance while brushing your teeth. Lipstick that says “I know my worth.”

Don’t rush through your morning — romanticize it. You’re not just going to an event. You’re showing up to claim space.

Final note: You’ve got this!

The truth is, most people are too focused on how they’re coming across to notice your tiny slip-up or stutter.

What they will remember? How you made them feel. How you smiled when you said hello. How you asked a thoughtful question and actually listened.

So go ahead. Show up. Shake hands. Make eye contact.

And remind yourself that this is not a test — it’s just another chance to be seen for the star you already are.

And if all else fails? Compliment their blazer.